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Easing out at Examination Fear

It is examination time and students are under tremendous pressure to perform well at the final examination.  At this time the student-teacher relationship and the parent - student relationship should touch a new high to move things in a proper direction at this crucial hour.  The need for a smoothstudent-teacher relationship and the working partnership of parent and teacher need a new look after a spate of attacks on a teacher by student and the wrath shown by student against parents are all part and parcel now a days. Stabbing incident by student against a teacher was bad precedence but in practical terms the agitated student was to show his anger in one form or the other and that came out by stabbing.  So Children needs to be motivated and not to be sulked for any reason.  Going hand in hand will help to maintainStudent-teacher relationship.  Of course schools are second home for children, where they should learn the way of life apart from education part. Freedom for students is needed but it should not cross the limits. With love, care, security we can win the hearts of the students. Children are averse to criticism. It is needless to handle the situation in a smooth way without hurting the concerned parties. It is better to celebrate teachers birthday in a simple way and to have cordial relationship.  Teacher's day on Sept 5th of every year celebrated to commemorate the birth of ex-president Sarvapalli S. Radhakrishnan.  The particular day needs special mention to develop love and affection. Many parents to go out of the way and give their children too much freedom and commit the mistake of raising their kids in a wrong way.  Scolding of any type is not going to serve the purpose in any way. Dictator attitude needs to be avoided and parent should try to cajole and pacify children and treat them like delicate being.  Love must be passed on to the children but at the same time impart knowledge also in an easy and efficient way.  If we fail to do justice to the role of parent by giving undue importance to children and pester them too much praise, then the child soon turn a brat, the one who cannot tolerate a no to the demands and somehow get the things done.  One should get imbibed to understand the needs of children and their basic requirements.  Handling a spoiled child is a difficult proposition and test the patience of parents.  Children should no be pampered beyond a limit and they should be made to realize the harsh realities of life.

Whatever said and done students are under tremendous pressure these days.  With the present syllabus taxing the students with heavy load of work and too much strain home work which includes project work Children are put to test.  Add salt to the wound additional coaching classes and mid-term test makes the children work overtime and there is no time to rest. Such type of schedule takes heavy toll on children and we come across Children breaking down during the academic year and some of them going to the extent of committing suicides as well.  The present education pattern is really taxing students and the students need to get some rest before they can think about the next move.  Parents are putting additional pressure on students and a parent who makes an effort to recognize his wards learning style and make use of the same in proper direction achieve maximum success. After all, knowledge is power and achieving more and more knowledge is an additional qualification for children.  It is time for teachers to motivate and inspire children.  It is up to Parents to make all the difference and work for the betterment of children by working on a strict time schedule and a proper time table to impart knowledge to children. It is better to give some special time to relax for the children.

Anxiety,  tension,  brokenness, conditional love, death, dejection, Emptiness, insignificance. guilt, hopelessness, illness, falsehood and a sense of shame on failure or due to shameless act by colleagues creates suicidal tendency. Depression is a strong mood involving sadness, loneliness, discouragement, despair or hopelessness that lasts for weeks, months or ever for a longer period creates the guilty feelings. Over 18 million people suffer from depression every year. Many never seek treatment yet most cases of depression or treatable with effective therapies and medication.  When we think of a depressed child, we often envision a morose child, who is a consistently sad.  However, sadness, may not be the symptom that defines a depressed child.  A study of researchers at the Columbia University in New York city reported that bad parenting may put their children at high risk for anxiety and depression. Anxiety and Depression is the root cause for the most of the suicides in India. Stitch in time saves nine is true.  If the remedial measures are taken timely then the suicidal rate will diminish among students. A simple living and high thinking can bring cheer in life. 

That stress attack can upset your plans of studying and scoring good marks in the annual examination. Setting smart goals will be ideal instead of making big time goals.  One should have a terrific time management to opt for balance and pulling away from peer called pressure. It is indeed. The examination fever will not allow children to follow  busy cricket season.  So the children does have diversions and at the same time they will have to prepare well for their examination.  Hence a proper planning is required to make things move at a crucial time in the career of Children.  Motivation of Children will be a key word and to sulk under pressure should be stopped always.