MARRIAGES ARE MADE IN HEAVEN
It is universally told that Marriages are made in Heaven. The fact
remains in this universe even after centuries and the married couples
make up their mind to have marriage bliss to have a smooth sailing in
family life. Live and let others live policy come handy in marriage
life as well. Give and take way of running a family appears to be the
best option for Indian way of living. We did not expect much and the
results are forthcoming. Taking dowry and giving dowry should be
totally abolished in Indian marriages. The fruits of dealing of
problems one at time yield good results. Understanding each other in
familiar situation provide best atmosphere in daily routine and pay
handsomely for a peaceful living.
Marital bliss is finding perfect happiness in marriage. When a couple
experiences marital bliss, it does not mean that they do not have
problems; they simply know how to resolve them and get back to loving
each other. The University of Washington Psychology Professor John
Gottman states communication is essential to having marital bliss.
While studying 3,000 couples, he has noticed that happy couples use
“five times more positive behaviors than negative ones,” while unhappy
couples are quick to criticize each other. In theory, learning how to
talk to one's spouse helps one achieve marital bliss.
Winning does not matter when one is looking for marital bliss. In
fact, trying to compete to win arguments often makes the situation
worse. Society teaches both men and women to compete in order to
succeed, and it is easy to bring that mental state into the marriage.
Unfortunately, doing so puts love and respect in the background. In
order to achieve marital bliss, both people in the marriage must work
towards the same goal. Fighting and arguing destroy marriages. It is
essential that both parties use the love and respect they have for the
other to uplift and inspire them. Acting in love helps couples achieve
marital bliss. It is a matter of adjustment and paying attention to
your spouse gives you the joy of life time and ensure you to face
stiff challenges during trying times.
Children are there for our support and the grand children provide joy
and pleasures of living full size life. Enjoyment is part and parcel
of life and we make use of the time and money in the best way possible
to achieve maximum enjoyment. When children approach us for help then
we really realise our importance and the will to live longer to be
part of their life. During the "bad times," there is more arguing and
blaming, less sharing and touching, fewer moments of joy and
appreciation. But we weather the storms, and some 50 percent of us do
stay married. What most couples don't realize, say marriage experts,
is that there are things they can do to ensure better times than
worse, to make riding out the storms smoother and easier. An open mind
and an open heart serve as a mirror and enrich your loving life to
last longer. There lies the success of marriage bliss for senior couples.
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